65th Birthday Surprise

[Ant]

Can someone PLEEEEEASE help me out?... I'm throwing a surprise 65th b-day for my mom & Dad. How do I word the invitation stating NO GIFTS, but if you insist on bringing a gift give money. Is that rude? They really don't need anything and the money will help pay for the party of over 100 people! thanx

[cozybuck]

the correct wording as to not to offend anyone is ( monetary gifts will be greatly appreciated)

[cozybuck]

ant, you can hit me up at cozybuck@aol.com , i own a party shop , i mainly do weddings and parties. i too am planning a surprise party for my mom and daughter at the same time and thats whats going on my invitations . monetary gifts or gift cards , my daughter is in college and moving to apt. in may . so that will help